Learned behaviours, habits, defaults, emotional reactions, schemas, they are all patterns. A string of connected things that come together to form what you do and who you are. Day to day, we are choosing things for ourselves, consciously or subconsciously. Today I've briefly covered the topic of the patterns in our lives and what we… Continue reading Recognising Your Life’s Patterns
Tag: emotional intelligence
Self-Care Sunday: 5 Routine Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health
I've felt my mental health slipping lately. As someone who has suffered high anxiety (clinically diagnosed social anxiety) and depression several times, I fear the low moods that crop up too often are a warning sign of the inevitable: my depression returning. However, this isn't necessarily the case. Negative emotions are just as valid and… Continue reading Self-Care Sunday: 5 Routine Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health
How to Change The Past
It is a common saying that "you can't change the past" and I agree. I'm sure we all do. But I do believe there is a way to change how you feel about the past, which, in a way, does change it. So, here are my thoughts on how to change the past... Get… Continue reading How to Change The Past
Overall Health Checklist
Here are 50 things to check to ensure optimum healthiness in all areas of yourself and your life! Have you had your 5-a-Day? Walked for at least 30 minutes today? Have you exercised in some form? Stretched and moved your body aptly? In any pain? Does it need checking out? Maintained a healthy standing-to-sitting… Continue reading Overall Health Checklist
How to Stop Feeling Stuck in Life (worksheet included)
It's awful to feel stuck in life. To feel like you're going nowhere or that you're not where you want to be and feeling powerless in that fact. I have felt this way more times than I can count, as someone in my early 20s with anxiety and big dreams. And so, in one of… Continue reading How to Stop Feeling Stuck in Life (worksheet included)
Insecurities and Society on Confidence (Podcast)
Do you feel insecure? Do you think society has an image of perfection that you don't match up to? Here's how to deal with insecurities...
How to Stop Caring What People Think (Podcast)
Are you someone who cares too much about what other people think of you? Do other people hold power over your emotions, your worth, and your confidence? Here's how to stop caring what other people think and how to build your self-confidence. Click to play! This week's worksheet to complete: Confidence Challenge Week Three Worksheet… Continue reading How to Stop Caring What People Think (Podcast)
Setting Powerful Mantras for Confidence (Video)
It's important to have a positive mind, but it's more important to stop yourself in your tracks when caught in a negative thought loop. Here is some advice! It's day eleven of the Confidence Challenge and the end of week two! Click to play! https://youtu.be/4nC44hW3jm8 This week's worksheet to complete: Confidence Challenge Week Two… Continue reading Setting Powerful Mantras for Confidence (Video)
Video: How Energy Affects Us
Here are my ideas about how energy affects us every day without us even knowing it. Energy is all around us. It is in everything we do, feel, see, interact with and so on. It's important to recognise this and adjust accordingly. What are your energy levels? What is influencing your energy? Click to play!… Continue reading Video: How Energy Affects Us
How To Get Out Of A Low Mood
When you're in a low mood, it can feel like it will last forever. You get frustrated with yourself because you want to have a good day, or get things done, but your mind is fighting against you. Well, if you're like me and you've recently gone through a low mood (or are in one… Continue reading How To Get Out Of A Low Mood